When Life Feels Like a Relentless Storm

In the whirlwind of our daily lives, it can often feel like we're navigating a relentless storm that doesn’t want to let up. Challenges and obligations continue to come our way, and it feels like we are pulled in every direction possible. Sometimes, this leaves me overwhelmed and unsure of which way to go first or what next steps to take. When it gets like this, it feels as though my dreams and visions aren’t achievable, aren’t reachable, and are so distant they could never be attained. I know I’m not the only one who feels stretched thin as life presses down. But amid what seems to be nothing but chaos, it’s crucial to remember that while these challenges are an inevitable part of our lives, it is possible to stay on course, even if that means making a few adjustments along the way.

Our journeys are rarely, if ever, a straight path. Most of us find our paths are more like winding roads filled to the brim with unexpected turns, uphill climbs, and intentional detours. Sometimes, we are confronted with obstacles that force us to slow down. We might experience times when we can’t maintain the ambitious schedules we set for ourselves. Maybe we find that our once-clear visions have become obscured by clouds of responsibilities and unforeseen events. But I’m here to tell you that it’s okay. It’s rough, but it’s okay. Slowing down doesn’t mean you stop completely; you just have to find a manageable rhythm that allows you to keep moving forward, even if that rhythm is at a different pace than originally anticipated. And no one says you can’t pick the pace up later.

In those tough moments of life, it is super important to create a pocket of positivity each day. If we don’t, it can have a lasting impact on us. Please take the time to listen to something uplifting, immerse yourself in some good uplifting writing, or simply take a moment to breathe deeply and appreciate the present moment of relief. Even the smallest anchors can keep you grounded during the most turbulent times of your life. These moments help remind us that, while we may not be able to control the storm we find ourselves in, we can choose how we navigate through it. That gives us the ability to be in more control and not be complete victims of the circumstances we find ourselves in. Having control of even the smallest parts of the situation allows us to feel stronger.

Slowing down is often one of those choices we can make in our lives. It often means new stressors have entered our lives. Sometimes, these new stressors demand so much of our time, attention, and energy that the best thing for us is to slow down other parts of our lives. Being able to acknowledge this and use your ability to adapt to the changes is a strength, not a weakness! Sometimes people feel that having to slow down in some part of their life is a reflection of weakness, when it is quite the opposite. Being able to admit and adjust is an amazing strength. Embracing this can be a great opportunity to recalibrate while still keeping your dreams in sight. Knowing that every step is important, no matter the pace, is crucial, and it's still a step in the right direction.

You must remember that progress isn’t always about speed; it is more about consistency and resilience. It’s about the determination to keep moving forward. Some days it can feel like you’re barely inching along, dragging yourself through it all. But let me be real with you: each and every small step you choose to take is a testament to your perseverance! You got this, and you will reach your goals—it just might take a little longer than you expected or a little longer than you would like.

With all that being said, I will leave you with this: when you feel like that relentless storm of life won’t let up, take comfort in knowing that you have the power to find your calm amid the chaos. Embrace the journey you find yourself on, even with all its ups and downs. Trust that you are and always will be capable of weathering any storm that comes your way. Let your dreams be the guiding stars that lead you through the darkest nights, and know that you are never truly alone on this journey, even though you might feel that way some days.

With lots of love,
Shalethea

Note to reader: My family and I are pretty private people when it comes to personal matters. However, I feel it is time to let my readers know that I haven’t stopped writing, but I have slowed down because of life’s storms and relentlessness. My mom was diagnosed with cervical cancer, and it has progressed quickly. Over the last two months, it has been a whirlwind. She is receiving hospice care, and the transition has been quick and hard for the family. I am still writing this newsletter because it is part of my dream; I have just had to slow down. Thank you all for the support and understanding.